Lucy Caulkett-
Possessive and jealous partners who monitor the mobile phones of their partners, are overbearing.
Millions of partners closely monitor the mobile phones of their spouses, expressing distrust in the process.
Men are particularly guilty of this, and most women feel too worn out to oppose them. Refusal to co-operate is often interpreted to be tantamount to guilt , forcing them to succumb to the unwelcome pressure.
The somewhat police style monitoring is generally committed by men who are themselves guilty, or have been guilty of cheating. Women known to have any history of cheating will generally be subjected to more monitoring by their partners.
INFIDELITY
Infidelity is believed to be more common among men, though more and more women are becoming cheats these days. Relationships were trust is strong should not experience this type of close monitoring which inevitably undermines trust.
Women who are monitored this closely are usually not allowed to even have male friends . Monitoring the mobile phone of a partner keeps them on their toes as far as stirring numbers are concerned, but it doesn’t prevent cheating. It only obstructs smooth communication between a cheating partner and the person they are cheating with.
POSSESSIVE CONTROL
Most partners who monitor the phones of their partners usually also control their facebook accounts. Broad monitoring of this nature is not healthy for the future of any relationship, but it works for some people. However, it shows that many people do not feel their partners can be trusted.