By Lucy Caulkett-
We today expose Kent resident, Azis Thompson, after sexually exploiting a vulnerable single mum using intimate family pictures.
A single mum has warned women to avoid Thompson, after he bombarded her with intimate pictures of his family, including his mother, presenting himself as a homely mummys boy.
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This will be the first time, a male will be exposed for deceiving a woman with fictitious promises, only to reveal sex as the ultimate goal. The practise is common amongst many men, who put sex above principle.
However, the story will be the first in a campaign by this publication to take a stand against irresponsible men who are prepared to create life, without greater consideration of its effect. Men and women alike need to consider the consequences of their action, and be conscious of the external cost to society of their foolish and selfish actions.
Thomas began communicating with the lady, whose anonymity we have on snap chat, and the conversations progressed to daily contact through phone calls and text messages. He told the lady who has a young child, but is not with the father that he could be a step-dad to the baby.
The woman, whom we will call Ms A, never settled with the father of the child, as the pregnancy was the result of a one night stand in a bar.
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Mr Thompson presented a potential new start for the lady, but he risked making matters worse by sleeping with her without a condom, and also coming inside her vagina, knowing full well how she just got pregnant.
I specifically told him not to cum inside me, and he promised he would come out, but then he just let loose inside me. I guess he was enjoying himself a bit too much”.
There was later a rush to find the after pill, but none of the shops in the area of Basildon where she lives had any pills. The implication was to manage the situation, only for reckless Mr Azis to repeat the act in the next sex session the couple had on the Sunday night.
Mr Azis, who had failed to respond to previous texts messages about the artists he promised for the radio station responded to an official text informing him of the decision top expose him in The Eye Of Media.Com.
Children from single parent homes are more likely to drop out of school and commit crimes.
Research also shows that children raised by a single mother miss out on. The singe mother is less able to attend to the child’s needs compared to one being taken care off by her husband. Many children can become neglected by a singe mother burnt out by the stress of being overburdened. Researchers say this makes many children develop into adults who have no feelings or affection for others.
Interestingly, Azis himself did not grow up with his father, and was raised by his mother alone. The co-incidence of circumstance could lead to a theory that children born into single homes are more likely to produce other children born into single homes.
The product of selfishness themselves, they may be inclined to act in a way that continues the cycle to which they themselves fell victim.
Support
In normal families a father gives support to his wife, particularly during the period surrounding birth and in the early childhood years when children make heavy demands on her.1 In popular parlance, he is her “burn-out” prevention. But a single mother does not have this support, and the added emotional and physical stress may result in fatigue and less parent availability to the child, increasing the risk of a relationship with the child that is emotionally more distant. The single mother generally is less able to attend to all of her child’s needs as quickly or as fully as she could if she were well taken care of by a husband.
These factors tend to affect the mother’s emotional attachment to her child and in turn reduce the child’s lifelong capacity for emotional attachment to others and empathy for others.
There is a lack of proper education in schools about the basic morals boys should have in the way they look at girls. Too many men objectivise women and see them as sex objects, instead of as a whole being with feelings and emotions.
There are pans for wide recommendations to The Department Of Education for the contents of sex education to be widened to include the potential psychological effects from being raised by a singe mum, to raise awareness and encourage boys to demonstrate more sensitivity and wisdom about the potential consequences of their sexual pursuits of girls.
Men are too often the product of their growing teenage years, and the standards and principles they had or didn’t have. Pupils who are aware of some of the downsides of having no father present in their life can develop the strength to counteract the temptation to be true to type.
Filled with regret about her unpanned pregnancy, the woman was hoping to find a new meaningful relationship and have a father figure in her baby. She trusted Mr. Thomas, who showed all the signs of gentlemanship. The woman had grown up without her Scottish father who abandoned her before she was born, in a familiar story with many females who end up as single mums.
In a careful attempt to do her vetting process well, she got her cousin to meet the Azis, to assess him from a man’s perspective.
The man, who is a DJ on The Eye Of Media.Com’s internet radio, provided a thorough examination of the wiley Mr. Thomas, who came across as polite and well mannered. He expressed an interest in the woman, but cautioned on moving too fast. He then claimed to know upcoming rapper Ramz, and promised to arrange a collaborative feature with the Uk rapper.
Mr Azis hired a jeep to her residence, where he spent the weekend of Saturday and Sunday. There he formed a bond with the baby, carrying her and putting her to bed in a charming way.
However, after two nights of mind blowing sex, he left on the Monday, and never contacted the woman up until now, the 7th week. He ignored text messages and phone calls made she made, and also never responded to messages by the radio DJ, with respect to rapper Ramz.
Ramz was contacted by this publication, but need not respond to confirm or deny any knowledge of Mr Thomson.
She told The Eye Of Media.Com that she had been dubiously exploited for sex in a dubious way that made her felt used.
She said: l started when he added me on Snapchat and started messaging me and talking to me everyday all day on social media and text.
We would be on FaceTime for more than 5 hours at a time he would send me pictures of his mum, step dad, grandma, dad and his friends and also their family. Aziz was a lovely and such a nice guy and I believed every lie that was coming out of his mouth he said he wanted to take me to Ivory Coast to meet his family there we hit it off from the very first time he came had sex with me with no condoms on for 2 days and was saying how he was going to see me again and text me but he just done a disappearing act on me.
He carried my baby, fed her said he wanted to be step dad to her and he was very good with her and that really played on my heart string and it melted my heart big time and messed with my head.
My daughter really loved him and he created a false bond with her which has really upset me even when he left mine he took over 7 hours to message me on text.
I’m just writing this as iIwill not want another woman to go through this especially if your a single mother, it’s a warning as not everything is glittered gold on the other side and men will lie to women to get what they need and then make a disappearing act so please be weary of who you meet especially online.
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