BY Lucy Caulkett
Women who date men for money are prostitutes. It is called professional prostitution.
When women date a man they definitely would never have dated if they did not have money, there is no other word for it.
Every woman wants to be happy, to have a man that will make life easier for them. However, all decent people know that money should not be the main decider in the choice of dates they pick.
Yet, there are women these days who would go with a man just because his pockets are good. The man may look like a monster, and though looks are not everything, they sometimes reveal the motive of a woman when you look at what is next to her. There are definitely those women who are after the heart and not just looks, but there is no pretence that gold diggers are easy to spot a mile off many times.
One of my friend’s sister at 27 announced she was dating a 52 years old. The catch is that this guy has a £1.2m in Belsize Park, drives a Porche, but looks like one who may have struggled for a date if he had no money. Forgive my shallowness, but he is nothing to look at. My point would have hit home better if we could have his picture posted next to the girl, but I was warned against attempting this. Love is one of the most precious energies in the universe and needs to be treated delicately. Money can’t buy real love, all it can buy is comfort and sex. Prostitutes operate in this world of comfort and sex because that simply is the name of their game. Love can sometimes come out of a relationship where money is present, given its wide potential scope for expanding the range of options available to individuals.
Money can spice up one’s love life, but is no recommendation on which to build a love life. Prostitutes only care about money, love does not come into the picture for them without money. Trying to build love on a false foundation can only be self deception. Some people argue that prostitution has no limits and involves regular sex with random people. That’s wide prostitution, but prostitution of a lower level can happen in stages. First, she goes through the first man with money, then finds another when the first is over or at the same time as the first. Prostitution like many things can come in various stages. No respectable person will try and build a love relationship on money.
A much better step is for an individual to build themselves up and respect their worth and potential, rather than clinging on to a partner for money, being blissfully ignorant of the chances that the money man may want to play the field a bit to enjoy what money can buy, including the foolish narrow minded women that dance at the sight and knowledge of money.
There are even the more foolish women who jump on a man because he has a nice car. His bank account may be begging for refilling but the fact the high aiming guy has managed to get a good looking sports car on higher purchase leads the shallow girl to see this as some evidence he has money, when in fact he does not know where his next money for petrol will come from. Such a man will make sure he has enough money to buy you a few drinks and something to eat, but he is barely living from day to day.