By Charlotte Webster-
Dumping by text or silence is high in colleges, and bad for the state of mind.
Many relationships that start well may not end as well, but dumping by text or silence is bad. It can affect the psychology and confidence of the dumped woman.
When men just walk out of a relationship without an explanation, they contribute to a resulting mistrust in the dumped woman.
It shows lack of care or concern for the emotions of the woman dumped and hung to dry.
CHALLENGES
Challenges to relationships are nothing new. Communication is always the best resolution, walking out without a word is just low and backward.
It shows lack of conscience or regard for the other person’s emotions.
I got my cousin’s recent boyfriend to explain his sudden disappearance and effective termination of their relationship.
EXAMPLE
I warned him that an example would be made of him on the internet if he did not immediately explain his actions.
He called within an hour to basically confirm he could not handle the rules she gave him to arrive home before midnight , and don’t arrive drunk. What a wimp!
This was why he walked out of a 13 months relationship without a word. No concern for her emotions, just selfish thoughts of his own.
After he apologised and explained himself, I advised her to just let him disappear because he is an underdeveloped 23 year old.