By Kelly Toomey-
Cheating partners are caught when they leave their mobile phones behind.
There must be many people who have caught their partners cheating when they left their phone behind.
The most hypocritical cases involve those partners who are always paranoid that their partners are cheating, only to be caught cheating themselves.
I was recently forced to draw the curtains on a relationship after a woman seeing my former partner went through his phone and called me to find out why I had been exchanging saucy messages with her so called man.
The worst thing about it is that he had always expressed paranoia that I may be seeing other men behind his back. He was.never happy to find out that men had commented about one of my posts, or sent me a flirty message.
Women in relationships should never encourage flirty messages from other men. Neither should men encourage it when women flirt with them. However, men are usually guilty of this, more than women. Cheating partners are caught more often when they forget their mobile phones.
They are often so careless that they leave a trail of evidence behind. Evidence that nails them and speaks more volumes than any other nonesense they may have said before then, or even after.
My position may be biased because I am a woman, but the points are make here are generally true. When I confronted my then partner, he said the texts were meaningless, and it is only me he loves.
I find it shocking and ridiculous when a man claims to love his woman, after he has been caught cheating. The obvious reason is because the words ‘ I love you’, is very easy to say. They are just words, unless backed up with full evidence in every way.
Cheating on a partner does not reflect love. On the contrary, it suggests that lust supersedes the love they claim to have. Many men who claim love, actually mean lust.
They want to keep their woman as a trophy and as a guaranteed sexual object available at their beck and call. Such men forget we are human beings with emotions.
Emotions that need to be catered for with a sustained level of love. A level of love so strong that they would not want to look elsewhere. When they are caught looking elsewhere, it must surely question their love.
Real love will be an obstruction that will stand in the way of cheating. However, a lot of men need to be taught about love. Only a handful of men know what it really means.