By Lucy Caulkett-
Valentine’s day comes once a year, and is the best time to catch a cheating partner, for all those who are brutally honest about the reality of their love.
A partner who is committed to an individual has no justified excuse not to spend the evening, and the night with their significant other. This is the one day that should be dedicated fully without excuse to their special lover. An evening dinner does not provide enough evidence of a loyal relationship because a man or woman can skilfully fit in two dinner dates in one evening if they really want to.
What a cheating partner cannot do is spend the night at the address of more than one partner. And before any one mentions long distant relationships as an excuse, let’s be frank and admit that a long distant relationship is no excuse not to spend a special day like valentine’s with your partner, no matter which part of the country they live. The one excuse some may give is the possibility that both partners have to be at work the next day in two completely geographical locations far apart from each other. Even when this is true,one or both individuals has to take the day off from work the next day to make sure they spend the crucial romantic day together.
There can simply be no good reason for two partners in love who are together to spend the night at different locations. I would like to hear them. Even for religious people like hard core Muslims who may want to use the avoidance of pre-marital sex as their excuse, this reason has a major weakness. Both partners can spend the night at a family member’s home and sleep in different rooms, if they are so truly committed to waiting until marriage before ripping each other’s clothes off in deep pleasurable lust.
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Every woman who wants to be absolutely sure they are the one and only love in their boyfriend’s life must insist their mobile phone is not on silent at all throughout the evening, and should not even need to insist that they spend the night together. Gifts and romantic notes or poems should be compulsory for every romantic partner, well, I am talking to the men, really. Women must not allow their man to go out to receive a call, no private calls must be allowed on a day like today. Transparency is important to be absolutely sure of the commitment of our lover. Trust is a great, beautiful, and importance thing, but so too is confirmation.
It will be stupid to want o be with somebody, who cannot even demonstrate their undying love and sincerity on a day like valentine’s day. The confirmation process can all be done in a romantic and playful way, but we must be very serious about making sure we are the only one being dated on an all important day like today. Unless we want to be fools to ourselves in the name of romance.
Everyone wants valentine’s day to run according to the perfect romantic script, but it is equally important that we use this day to make absolutely sure that we are the real and sole partner of the one we love, and that he is not deceiving us.
Valentines day is not a day most people would want to catch their partner out, but it is better to catch them out now, than to be fulled for the next year or more by a cheating lover who makes us feel good, but in reality is as bad and rotten as a disease.