By Lucy Caulkett-
Women must dump violent domestic violent partners in 2019 to avoid becoming a statistic of fatality. The murder of women by jealous and evil men in 2018 and previous years is a serious reminder of the need for women to act fast to get rid of violent partners, and not compromise at all or gamble with their lives.
Far too often, women stay in relationships where men have demonstrated violence against them in the hope that they will change, and the problem will suddenly go away. They are usually wrong because as the old saying goes, a leopard cannot change its spots. Men that hit women are dangerous and could easily go on to be more violent later in their relationship. The biggest mistake many women make is to use love as an excuse to stay with a violent man who attacks them or their property.
Jealousy is a major factor in violence from men against their partners. Jealous men easily go into a range, particularly if there is a presence of mental health issues in the men which the woman is not aware or conscious about. The more complicating factor is where the woman herself has an element of mental health problems she may not be aware of, which contributes to inflaming a bad situation in the relationship which could lead to violent behaviour. Women in violent relationships should just find the quickest way out of the relationship, and seek advice if experiencing difficulties in doing so.
Women who have children with a man and have their finances locked in with him usually find it most difficult to leave. Consideration of the children is always a challenging factor, but it is in the safe interest of the woman to raise the children on he own than be with the violent man. However, difficult it is, it is always worth seeking professional help and take the right decision. Calling the police can be useful at the time of a violent incidence, but not in the future case of one that may be fatal. No true man will find it necessary to get physical against their partner, and those who do are not real men. We know the world is not without violent women too, but it is for men to weigh up the level of violence from such women, was led to it, and decide whether to walk away from the relationship or no.
Men should not stay in violent relationships either, but the fact is that as the generally weaker gender, women are usually the ones on the receiving end of violence. The murder of 33 year old June Jones has shocked an entire neighbourhood, and a member of The Eye Of Media.Com, who is a distant relative of the murdered woman.