By Lucy Duffield-
All parents need to unite to raise children properly. It is the responsibility of all parents to unite in bringing up their children properly.
It shouldn’t matter whether they are together or not, if parents who have moved on to a new relationship should never quit their duty to take responsibility in taking some responsibility for their children.
Responsibility should be a two-way thing. When children witness their parents in regular dispute, it takes away an essential level of respect and leadership expected of children. Even arguments on the phone should be kept away from because it heightens their sense of tension in the family environment.
A parent in a new relationship must always imagine the silent effect this could be having on the child. Children need to see leadership in their home, not contend with crippling divisions at the top that makes them used to an environment of conflict.
Fathers and mothers must unite
Fathers who do not play a role in their children’s development are a waste of space. Some of them actually are and have little quality contribution to offer their children. They squander their money on drink, drugs, or both. Others are just plain irresponsible and care little for the interest of their child. If they made an effort, they may find themselves passing on some of life experience to their children.
kids need to be taught in school that they must respect their parents and recognize the boundaries between being a child and being a parent. Parents first need to behave responsibly and show example by doing so.
Children should be taught that when their parents instruct them to be in at a certain time or do their homework, they should respect that their parents know better and are in a position of authority to train them well so that they have a good future. Children should really be thought all this from primary school, and at home.
Respect for parents
There is a problem of respect for parents here in the West- the U.K and The U.S suffer from this in many families. Usually, it has something to do with the parent not behaving in a respectable way themselves, or not having been accomplished in their professional field, or not having a field at all. Children pick up from their immediate environment, and this is the reason parents have a responsibility to be mature themselves and raise their children properly.
Children not well brought up can become a menace to society, and the world is full of such. They lack skills and prospects, making them vulnerable to the bad influence on the streets of others who may be even worse than them and who come from families with messed up upbringing. The good news is that every parent can change their thinking and conduct overnight if they recognise their failings and act promptly to correct it.
Though, the longer bad practice is left to linger in a family, the more difficult it is to correct their effects. That is why parents who set the correct standards and boundaries from the word go, stand a much higher chance of bringing up successful children. Who wants children who will bring shame on them?